A growing number of people are taking their search for love offline to attend speed dating events and other gatherings. Some are even hiring old-school professional matchmakers.
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Just stay single too much drama nowadays
โIโm 5โ8โ and I wear heels.โ Aka Iโm looking for Chad.
f*ck dating apps!
The real recognition is that Single Women or women in general USUALLY overestimate their own attractiveness and which Man they should go for
Perhaps because they have their artificial hair and make-up, to heels, to boob and ass jobs , breast lifts etc
They then think they are hot enough for only Chad or Tyrone
ALL OF THEM
want Chad or Tyrone
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It Will continue untill everyone gets sense
Chad is gonna continue to smash.
Cos Eve and her sisters are giving it up to him
And then complain that Chad wouldn't commit to her
Ofcourse he won't
He got many of you ๐๐๐
Really
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It has been a well established fact for decades that ice cream customers at a shop with 10 flavours will be more satisfied with their choice than at a shop with 100 flavours. It has now taken over ten years with dating apps for people to realise that the same goes for partners.
Mostly women in the West looking for men with six figures to take care of them or baby mamas out there trying to find a man to take care of them and their kids and pay all their bills when men right now are not looking at that as a good return on investment and we're looking for more traditional feminine women which is why we go to Eastern Europe or the Philippines or Asia because we're not finding that in the west right now most women in the West just want a man to pay their bills and a minute they don't like them they can run off and take everything they own accuse them of things especially if they get married to have their assets and a lot of men are waking up to this and just choosing to stay single. Also the share amount of rejection online just by a swipe or how you look without actually getting to know you and or the chats they go unresponded are astronomical and it's causing a lot of mental health issues with men and they're just burnt out and saying you know what I'm out.
You know a one point your communities like church or family helped find you a spouse, Why did we get away from this?
I can tell why these girls used dating sites no offense lol
The dating app scene fell apart because 95% of wmn only find 5% of men attractive, and that's a true stat direct from apps like Tinder. Bumble fell apart because women won't even give men the time of day.
The apps themselves are not the problem. The problem is that American wmn are so full of themselves and delusional about their looks level that they think almost no man is good enough anymore.
Address that problem, ABC, or you're just doing what you always do: never hold wmn accountable for a problem they've created.
Women meet future professionals in college, blue collar professionals on service calls, professional peers at work and suitable matches are introduced by friends & family. Instead of choosing one of those guys American women waste their prime years being promiscuous and swiping on apps while looking for a 6' tall Prince Charming former bad boy with great hair until they're 35+, fat or had a kid by a scumbag. By then it's too late for quality men of any race to be interested.
6:12 Jada you want someone with ambition and goals
-are you bringing to the table what you require ?? with that weight on youthat shows a lack of ambition and where's the goal to lose weight..sorry just a thought ๐คWhere are these matchmakers finding male clientele to match with their female clientele? Because it seems like they have like 5 women to everyone male๐ญ
Weird, how long did they need to wait? We've been normal for 2 years now after Pdemic.
Theyโre money grab apps that cater mainly to women and not average men. And creates a bigger target on the 10% of men that mostly all women are chasing for.
Women are burned out. Let's be honest. They've been getting pump & dumped since 15. Now they're 32 and simply tired of it. 85% of men can't get a date to save their life.
All I meet are women who want their bills paid.
Everyone: Talking about how bad online dating is
Me: Got damn thatโs some good pizza, I want some NY style pizza now.
I am single whoโs up for a night in town.
They all want "Mr.Perfect" that's why they're chronically single. That's the most concise and best way to sum up the problem here.
People are realizing how bad the internet can be for mental health. I met my person in real life and I have no social media.
4 months was enough, the apps were just ๐
One problem I noticed at 0:39 , โAre we pen pals?โ So many women on dating profiles spew the same rhetoric. You can tell they repeat what their friends say or what theyโve read somewhere. Here I can see it before my eyes. What happened to thinking for yourself?
Yikes not reliable way to go about dating 3:55.
I remember that song from Fiddler on the Roof. As a kid I thought it was about matches for making a fire.
I genuinely feel bad for anyone trying to date or meet someone good in 2024.
Now that women have had their share of telling men how WORTHLESS men are they want to date???? Women told men to leave them alone, Women told men that we have to be 6ft, Women expect to men to come second to feminism…It's gone too far, what did women expect? This isn't the movies men are tired of the BS!
The first dealbreaker she mentions is a man's height and how he should be taller than her in heels. What's the point of in-person dating if you are still chasing Chads and Tyrones with your superficial mindset. You can filter that easily on dating apps but I guess those men you want don't want you back. And even if they do it's for that one thing. So what makes you think you have a better chance in this setting? Ridiculous!
The problem with this situation is that we men aren't stupid. A lot of these women are tired of "online dating" because they have been ran through without commitment!! Now, these same women are looking for some poor dumb ass to pay the final price. I know not all women are whores, but there sure are alot of them unfortunately. Men hold the line.. This situation will change when men stop simping and women start respecting themselves
There isnโt enough tall and handsome men for every women. Thatโs the only problem ๐
Lol๐๐๐๐๐ man u gotta be kiddin me ladies stop please
Maybe old school therapy & looking inward for answers when your results aren't making you happy.
I like being single SYSBM โ๐ฟ
Any self respecting man knows that dating in this day and age is DEAD. Men should use their big heads and save their time, money and energy. You dont need dead weight!
its simple , have a base level app that takes out height preference and weight preference , income preference . just put one base range of each preference and allow parents in on the process. AKA arranged marriages